You don't have to rush your way through it. No matter what, these things take time.
[he knows that, and he doesn't want judas to feel like he needs to rush himself through the mourning process for anyone else's sake. even that mentioning what chaltier would want for him—it's not meant to be a form of pressure.]
But I thought... maybe remembering that would help. It was like that for me too, to remember that Dymlos wouldn't want me to dwell on it for a long time either. [it's more of a mild encouragement, at least... stahn thinks so.
he wants judas to go at his own pace and let his wounds heal in the way he needs to—he doesn't really want to make him feel as if there's a pressing need to "get over it" or move past it. if he needs to mope or feel depressed...
then stahn knows that he'll just want to be the one who sits across from judas, or next to him and lets him be that way until he feels ready to lift his head an move forward.]
Your previous lives... they're still part of you. They'll never go away; they're what make you who you are. So it's okay if you need time. You still have a long life ahead of you here, Emilio.
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[he knows that, and he doesn't want judas to feel like he needs to rush himself through the mourning process for anyone else's sake. even that mentioning what chaltier would want for him—it's not meant to be a form of pressure.]
But I thought... maybe remembering that would help. It was like that for me too, to remember that Dymlos wouldn't want me to dwell on it for a long time either. [it's more of a mild encouragement, at least... stahn thinks so.
he wants judas to go at his own pace and let his wounds heal in the way he needs to—he doesn't really want to make him feel as if there's a pressing need to "get over it" or move past it. if he needs to mope or feel depressed...
then stahn knows that he'll just want to be the one who sits across from judas, or next to him and lets him be that way until he feels ready to lift his head an move forward.]
Your previous lives... they're still part of you. They'll never go away; they're what make you who you are. So it's okay if you need time. You still have a long life ahead of you here, Emilio.