[stahn appreciates the help, at least. that part feels pretty warm and caring.]

There's still... a difference. You're talking about it with... [how does he explain it? clinical would be the word, but that's not really in stahn's vernacular in that sense.]

Well, like it's a job or a mission. Business and not... something just for us... [naturally, stahn is the sentimental one about this, which all ties back to his small-town values about love and sex.]